Reading a book or having a conversation with a close friend or just writing an essay and having a good laugh - Life has never been so good! Lifts me up, up, up, up! Sunday 30th, January 2011.
The most charming and intimate hint on being single is that your spirit's lifted and you consider yourself suddenly down to earth, after being in outer space. You feel happy. Your single world is brighter and more interesting. I love it. Judy Ford writes a book on this subject and I couldn't stop reading.
Being single is like having a conversation with a really good friend who supports you all the way. When you feel lonely in what often seems like a world meant for couples, you find time to enjoy your hobby. Do something that you love to do and was never given the chance. You will find that it patches up the brokenness and emptiness when you enjoy your pass-time and enjoy the comfort that it gives you.
Don't use up all your money. Be a good wager as well as a good spender. Know how to save. Know how to count. You may find that one day, you will need the extra cash to pursue that innermost thing that is been denied from you for a very long time, that you push aside because you had other important matters to pursue.
Then, all of a sudden, as if by magic, OR if you sudden found a giver or a support that pays you, take that special free time zone of yours for awhile, and just go to that special place in your heart, acknowledge it, it has been a long winter......
I find solitary profound when you go out shopping. Go cheap as living has been just. You don't live for yourself alone, you live for your special love ones - buy that 'thing' or that 'piece' or that 'dish-of-your-life' that has kept you lonesome up for too long. Sometimes it helps if you don't have high hopes. How you were brought up signifies how much a spender you are. Or are you just as much as a lonesome shopaholic?
Take a walk out in the park or at the field when the sun goes down or after a pouring rain. Suddenly you saw a rainbow and remembers God's promise. When the sun sets, you saw the magical sky wonder, full of colour. How many of you has the chance to watch the sun goes down and walk back to a wholesome meal?
Thank your mother! Respect those mighty income earners! They earn money out there day in, day out, and you just spend money only! You just know how to tell people off. Why don't you take time and breathe?
Sat. 29th. I helped Mom carry goods home after going to the market.
Fri 28th. I helped Mom buy New Year goods at the Supermarket.
Thurs. 27th. I helped Mom choose Chinese New Year goodies at the Hypermarket!
GONG XI FA CAI.
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